Friday, 15 October 2021

How to motivate kids to follow Islam and Quran without forcing them

 

Our future's most valuable asset is our children. Will you harvest what you sow? For all parents, parenting is a huge duty. The topic of discussion is how to teach Islam to children and urge them to follow it, as well as good manners, Quranic teachings, and hadith, without pushing them.

“I believe the children are our future. Teach them well and let them lead the way. Show them all the beauty they possess inside” (Whitney Houston).

Motivation keeps people engaged in their activities and inspires them to achieve their goals. Throughout their mental development, children require constant incentives.

Verses from the Quran on child-rearing

A Muslim child is born with the right to grow up to be a good practicing Muslim adult. Parents should be aware of their children's obligations and rights. When it comes to raising a child, what does the Quran say?

“Oh you, who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones.”(Quran, 66:6).

Your wealth and children are but a temptation, and with Allah! Is the tremendous reward. ” (Surah At-Taghabun Verse 15)

Hadith on raising a child

What the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) had to say regarding the Islamic manner of raising children?
There is no gift a parent can give their child that is better than good mannersAllah has mercy on a servant because of his strong love for his child. Saying of the messenger of Allah about how to raise daughters in Islam. “Whoever Allah has given three daughters and being kind and supportive towards them, Allah will guarantee with paradise.

Respect them

Every parent adores their child. Parents' affection for their offspring is instinctive. Respect, on the other hand, is one of the child's most basic wants. The first thing that parents should do when they build a bond with their children is to respect them.

Parents should safeguard their children's self-esteem in order to provide a solid foundation for their learning journey. When you respect them, your children will immediately treat you with politeness and respect. 

Using Proper Etiquette

In front of your youngster, focus on being a role model. Make a list of what you want your youngster to learn. If you become a decent Muslim who does not lie, prays frequently, avoids backbiting, and respects the privacy and esteem of others, your children will immediately change. Your child is a reflection of you, and they pick up on all of your good and negative traits. They learn by deeds rather than words.

In front of them, follow Islam.

Parents should consider the task's purpose before telling their children. Follow Islam in front of the child rather than imposing laws on them. remind them of the goal of Islam's teachings, offer them a brief overview of your performance, and gradually ask them to obey the rules without coercion.

Re-cite Quran and short dua

Every Muslim is required to Recite The Quran. Recite the Holy Quran aloud in front of children to impart the teachings of the Holy Quran in them. The Recitation Of The Quran is a component of our everyday practice.

Because a child's brain is like a blank sheet of paper, whatever they learn at a young age is always retained for a long time. Before beginning any task, parents should say a dua and teach their children a few brief duas. The following are some short duas that youngsters should learn.

Before leaving, recite Dua.

Before and after each meal, recite the dua.

Dua of milk Drinking

Drinking water dua

Dua for entering and exiting the bathroom

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